About Me

Hey stranger, I’m Andy, a 40 something neurodivergent queer person.

The past few years have been quite a journey for me, coming out as panromantic asexual and agender, basically I can be romantically attracted to someone regardless of gender, in fact I can be a little lbind to gender sometimes, and I have little to no sexual attraction to anyone.

I’ve also recently been diagnosed with ADHD and Autism, which basically means my brain often feels like chaos monkeys fighting. There has been, and continues to be a lot of work to accept these parts of who I am, and to learn what it actually means for me, because I’ve learned to mask my autistic side in order to conform to “societies expectations”…

I’m weird, and I’m a lot to deal with sometimes, but I try to be the best I can be with the hand I have been dealt, but it isn’t easy.

Oh yeah, and I’m also an IT nerd!

You can find me on Mastodon